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Showing posts with label lists. Show all posts
Showing posts with label lists. Show all posts

Sunday, 28 October 2012

30 before 30: The list




It's been about a month since my 29th and the big 3-0 is looming in my head.  I don't want to go back to work and feel like I did when I was teaching - that my whole life was just about my job and everything I loved slid by the wayside.

I love lists and achieving things, so when I saw this idea doing the rounds I couldn't resist getting in on the action.  I think it'll keep some focus on the old work-life balance.  I may be being as over-ambitious as ever, but I'll give it my best shot!

1 - Run a half-marathon
2 - Visit a postcard perfect desert island
3 - Learn three more songs on my guitar
4 - Take the sleeper train to Edinburgh
5 - [to be revealed soon, shhhh....]
6 - Go to Secret Garden Party 2013
7 - Brush up on my German
8 - Cycle more often on my shiny new bike
9 - Replant the garden
10 - Take at least one Brazilian JuJitsu class a month
11 - Bake a three-layer cake that actually looks pretty
12 - Finish repainting the house
13 - Clear out my wardrobe of anything I don't love anymore.
14 - Revisit Lille with my Dad
15 - Get a mani-pedi
16 - Start using my Filofax
17 - Get my nose pierced
18 - Make a real home for my records and track down my top three 'must haves'
19 - Get a mini-skateboard and have fun falling off it
20 - Take a horse-riding lesson with my best friend
21 - Get my driving licence
22 - Take 'The Historian' world tour (even in installments)
23 - Finish that short story
24 - See a West End show
25 - Visit the London museums with my mum
26 - Make icecream/sorbet at home
27 - Go to Bath and bathe
28 - Clear my student overdraft
29 - Get a full health MOT
30 - Do yoga everyday for 21 days

If you decide to join the fun, leave a link in the comments.  I'm curious what would be on your wish list!

Tuesday, 2 October 2012

Round the world: 6 loves, 6 loathes of long term travel



I've been on the road for about two months now, long enough to feel like I've just started, but also like I've been gone forever.  I thought it was time for a round up and I love me a good list, so here's my yays and nays thus far...

Woop:

The freedom of solo travel

I don't have to worry about what anyone else wants to do/eat/see today, but me.  I am totally on my own schedule and I never have to rush or wait for someone else to get hungry or tired if I'm all done.  The only expectations I have to meet are my own.  This is new.

The sunshine

I have managed to plan this trip so that I'm following the summer round the world.  Coming from Mediterranean stock, I cannot get enough of the blue, blue skies and bright, bright sunshine.  It's impossible to reach the same depths of melancholy when the sun's shining as it is in the grey drizzliness. True fact.

The art, the museums, the sights, the sounds

I've seen so many beautiful, mind-expanding works of art and learned so much science and history from fantastically designed museums.  Not to mention the constant street art, architecture, interesting shops, gorgeous parks, breathtaking mountains and so on.  Why don't I do these things at home? I don't know, but I will do in future.

The people

There's nothing like being alone to encourage people to talk to you.  I've had nothing but lovely experiences of people in coffee shops, galleries, hostels and even been asked to join a party for dinner at a restaurant.  I've met authors, musicians, photographers, artists and all have been unfailingly interesting and friendly.   If you're worried about being alone when travelling solo, don't be.

Local radio and newspapers

I've fallen madly in love with NPR radio since I've been in the East Bay, but in every city I've picked up a copy of the local paper and found a wealth of interesting things.  There's always something happening that you'd never hear about elsewhere as a tourist and they're less overwhelming than Time Out.  It's such a great (and free!) way to get a feel for where you are and a local eye-view of same.

The Holy Moment


If you know not of what I speak watch this (actually watch the whole film).

When you only have a short period of time, be that 3 days or 3 weeks, somewhere and everything is new, you never get to take things for granted.  I'm not living miles in the future or past, everything is just now or unimportant.  Sure I'm daydreaming about things like I always have, but no train of thought can last long when I look up and think 'OMG I'm in California!' Each night I go to sleep thinking about what I will do tomorrow and then I do it.  That's it. And it's incredibly freeing.


Eurrgh:

The exhaustion

The corollary of 'all the things to do!' and my own tendency to make lists to determine my accomplishments means I have trouble accepting that some days I don't want to visit that amazing thai place or see that art installation, but do want to lie on my bed, watch 5 hours of Angel and eat toast for all three meals.  I'm having to accept that this is OKAY and I am not failing at travelling if I don't do everything on the '100 things to do in -----' list.  So hard.

Having no clothes

I packed so light and I am glad of that, but oh god I miss my clothes! I miss my shoes! I miss other colours and having more than one choice per weather front.  I hate having to do laundry quite so often. I've stopped going near shops, because I just want to buy everything.  Earrings are no longer cutting it for a fix.

Also, America, you have drive thru ATMS and Starbucks, you are the king of convenience, so why are washing machines not INSIDE YOUR APARTMENTS?! Je nes comprede pas!

The food and the fatness

It is hard work eating normally on the road and harder running when you don't have familiar routes that you know are safe. I almost immediately gained weight upon entering the US and have had to pay an extraordinary amount of attention to my diet and exercise to avoid a repeat of my Shanghai 15lbs.  I would like not to give my brother the excuse to greet me with "Cor, Kate! You got fat!" twice in my lifetime.

The polite conversations

As lovely as everyone has been, it can be tiresome doing the where I'm from and why I'm here conversation over and over.  It's hard to have genuinely meaningful conversations with strangers, not impossible, but hard.  That said, when you do, it's completely heartwarming.

The travel stress

I'm actually a terrible traveller, as anyone who's ever been on holiday with me will tell you.  I stress.  I check my passport every five seconds.  I worry I'll miss every mode of transport and yet am always browsing Tie Rack when the final call is announced.  I get nervous days in advance and I hate flying.  The advantage of being by myself is that I have no one to take this out on and then owe an apology. Silver lining.


The one that could be in either column: Homesickness

I do miss home, or rather the people I have at home.  It's one of those things I just have to avoid dwelling on or it would be overwhelming.  That said, there was a time I didn't care, I was so happy to be away and I'm actually pleased that my life at home is one I miss.  I'm not running away any more, I'm just travelling.  That's good to know.


What about y'all? Your yays and nays of seeing the world?








Sunday, 23 September 2012

Timesuck Sunday: Skaters, skinny oats and social inequality


Now I've hit the West Coast I am in love with every skater I see.  They are cool and beautiful and happy in their own skin.  Thanks to Ed Templeton's sexy photography you can admire them from wherever you are in the world.

Speaking of California, running here is giving my ego a battering. Everyone's so fit and tanned! So I'm taking this to heart. Even though I'm no longer overweight, I think this little voice lurks inside everyone who hasn't always been athletic: 'Hey, FatGirl'

Totally late on the internet bandwagon, but I've finally fallen for overnight oats in a jar. Some of the recipes around come out pretty high in calories, but Gina at Skinnytaste is to the rescue (again): Skinny Overnight Oats In A Jar

It's no secret how much I love alt-J. Their new video Is showing over on thefourohfive. Sexy beats with a sexy matador.

Being in the US during the Presidential race is somewhere between exciting and terrifying. People seem to have a lot of conviction, but without  anything to back it up.  The rich/poor divide is pretty stark too.  I've seen both more extreme wealth and far more drastic poverty in these American cities than ever on the streets of London. Perhaps policy makers should listen to this: TED: How Social Inequality Harms Societies

And read this: Rising Poverty and Social Inequality in America.

And in case you aren't outraged enough, here's a heartfelt article on behalf of 'the other 1%' about how being poor affects people.


Monday, 23 July 2012

How To Go Backpacking With Style: The Ultimate RTW Packing List


I have actual, honest-to-goodness nightmares about packing.  I'll be wandering around my dream life happily enough, then suddenly, out of nowhere, I'm supposed to be at the airport, the taxi's outside and I'm desperately flinging things into my suitcase and hyperventilating until I panic myself awake.  So packing for me is up there with unplanned public nudity and revising for the wrong exam in terms of nightmare fare.  The Rough Guide to RTW trips was no help, as clearly written by a man who suggests just popping to the nearest charity shop for a jumper if you need one.  Oh.  Dear. God. Stress.

Still, this is about strategies for the freak outs, not the freak outs themselves, so how did I do it?

Step 1 - Research:

Initially I was all, 'I'm going to Canada, must have snow boots!' I quickly realised that Vancouver in September is much more likely to require wellies and I am in fact chasing the Summer for the whole trip. (Go team!)  So the first step is to look hard at where you're going, what you're likely to do there and what the climate is like when you're due to arrive.  All the Rough Guides and Lonely Planets have year climate tables, as does Google.  For me this narrowed my focus to Spring/Summer clothes, with an emphasis on staying dry.

Most backpacking lists are all about the middle-of-nowhere travellers, where they don't have mirrors and you never need to see your thighs in hiking trousers, but over half my time will be in major metropolitan areas in which I do not want to look like a cross dressing Bear Grylls.  This is where I think it's best to pay attention for a week or so to what you wear on a daily basis.  One of the best pieces of advice I read was, if you don't wear it at home, you won't wear it abroad.  I never wear cargo pants at home, so regardless of how many packing lists they turned up on they aren't happening.

This is also where I turned to my favourite fashion blogs, Fashion Grunge and the Sartorialist, for ideas about a capsule wardrobe with personality.  Nina Garcia's The One Hundred, also really helped me think about the classic items that will look good no matter where you are - bateau tops, ballet flats, dark denim.  Lots of black, because according to American travel sites, us Europeans wear a lot of it and everyone wants to look European. Done.

Make up a Pinterest mood board so you can see how everything fits together.  I chose my signature colours, black, white, denim and red, and worked everything around them.  Made it so much easier to whittle when the criterion was that everything had to layer and match everything else.  Look at people's Six Items Or Less challenge wardrobes for ideas on how to accessorise a small number of clothes to feel like a whole wardrobe.  I must also give special mention to Sarah over at YesandYes for her Definitive What To Pack Post.  She's clearly more hardcore than me, but it was a great place to start!

Step 2 - Planning:

So here is my list of items and justifications.  You can see them all in glorious technicolour over on my aforementioned Backpacking Packing Pinterest board.



Bamboo leggings, yoga pants, long sleeve tee, zip sweat, vest top, socks, thongs x 7.  All black for obvious style and dirt disguising properties.  Bamboo because it is either warm or cool depending on what you need it to be, dries quickly and doesn't smell as fast as cotton.  It also feels like being silkily hugged by your clothes; none of the faint itch of merino.  The leggings are for running or sleeping in.  The yoga pants are smart enough with ballet flats for long flights.  Everyone needs a black vest top in their life and the zip top is warm but not bulky.  Thongs to avoid VPL with all the stretchy trousers going on.

T-shirts - petit bateau, white, grey, lace stripe, peace vest. A classic stripe tee is instantly stylish no matter where you are, ditto white and grey plain tees.  The black and cream lace and peace ones are my wildcards.  I love these shirts, bought them in Lille, they squish to about the size of a 50p piece and make me feel sexy.  I can't do too classic, too much or I won't feel like myself.

Denim - dark skinnies, levi cut-offs, shirt. Skinnies to wear tucked in boots or rolled up with flats.  Dark as it's smarter.  Cut-offs - 'nuff said really. Classic.  Denim shirt to bring a bit of the East London hipster with me. Can't wear it here anymore without being a try-hard, plus good layering piece.

Jumpsuit, multiway dress. I love jumpsuits.  I hate my legs so dresses really aren't my thing, but jumpsuits I heart greatly.  That said, this multiway dress from American Apparel is a traveller's dream, as it can be worn so many different ways I lost count, even as a skirt or a halter top. Amazing! It's actually flattering, too.  Both are a whole outfit in one and both can be dressed down for the beach or up for partaying the night away.

Pac-a-parka. Small, light, but my ex-Girl Guide self can't leave without a waterproof.  I've tried to make sure it's not completely ugly.  Red to bring an easy flash of colour.

Salomon Crossmax. I'm a runner and I don't want to lose it over 6 months, but regular running shoes aren't helpful for other things. Cue the Salomon Crossmax which is designed to be half road, half trail equipped, so no need for hiking boots either! Whoop!

Ballet flats, Vans, Havaianas, D&G's. Ballet shoes are timeless classics, but I got these with punk studs for a bit of personality.  Vans, because they have slightly thicker, read more comfortable, soles than Converse.  Havaianas as the most comfortable flip flops around.  Do not even think about packing 'walking sandals', even the supposedly cute ones are hideous. Do not go there.  And you should have one pair of heels, shiny heels.  Yes I know most purists will roll their eyes, but I'm going to New York! I'd be letting Carrie and Co. down hugely if I didn't have just one pair of expensive heels to strut around in. 

Biker jacket, All Saints cardi and biker boots. Because I'm a little rock chick at heart and these are my staple, don't-go-anywhere-without's.  Also warm and comfy.  I'll wear the boots to travel in.

Scarves - red leopard, floral.  Big enough to double as sarongs or towels.  They instantly make you look pulled together even if you're only wearing a t-shirt and jeans.

Ray Ban Wayfarers

Arm Party

Bikini

Black cross body bag in which I can fit my Kindle.  I don't go anywhere without a book, but I want my normal bag to be no bigger than necessary and I'm not wandering around Seattle with a daypack. Gah.  Cross body to keep hands free and zip up to deter pesky thieves.

Lastly and irresponsibly, gold sequin waistcoat.  I know, I know, but I like sparkle and sparkly things and it's very small but adds a ton of glam. And I'm a muppet. But a shiny muppet. Yes.


Step 3 - Purchasing:

Once you've got a list of things to look out for, the fun begins! But if you're like me and have a very limited budget, this stuff can really add up.  So be canny about it.  Take what you already have and love to wear.  I hid some of my favourite t-shirts so I could get excited to wear them again. Also, I started planning early enough that I caught the end of last year's Summer sales for the bamboo base layers and saved about £60.  Finally, I can't say it enough - Ebay, Ebay, Ebay.  Gap Always Skinny jeans? 99p RRP £39.  Those shiny designer shoes? £30, RRP £350.  Seriously, get in there!

Now I was going to take my trusty Karrimor 65l friend who has been up hill and down dale with me, but it is far, far bigger than all my stuff, so I've invested in a new Osprey Farpoint 40 (the s/m is actually smaller than 40l). Pics of it all packed up to follow, mostly as otherwise no-one who has ever travelled with me and my mega-bag(s) will believe it happened...

So, friends, that's it for the style part, stay tuned for electronics, toiletries and miscellaneous.  Oh my.

Read part 2 here:

http://katysordinarydays.blogspot.com/2012/08/how-to-go-backpacking-with-style-gear.html


Saturday, 21 July 2012

The Plan, I mean Pl...



...I mean the part where I try desperately to resist my Virgoan need to list every transfer to be taken, hostel to be slept in and restaurant eaten (yep) for the entire six month period.  I have managed to reach a compromise with myself - I have booked flights for the entire trip and have a rough itinerary for the first leg, but I'm forcing myself to do the rest on the road.  And believe me, forcing is the right word.


So how did I get from 'I have six months and a world to see' to 'I'm going to A, B and X'?  Not alone is the answer! I called the lovely Paul at roundtheworldexperts and essentially listed all the places I have friends with couches, then let him connect the dots in the cheapest way possible.  I cannot over-state how helpful he was in taking my vague plans and putting names, dates and places on them in a number of conversations that loosely went:

"Uh, I have a friend living in New York and, er, another one in Vancouver..."
"Ok, so how long would you like to spend in the U.S.?"
"Erm, how long do you think?"
"Well, how about we say 2 weeks in N.Y.C, two weeks travel time overground to Vancouver? I'm emailing you a list of different travel options, Amtrak, Greyhound, etc, for cross-country.  Take a look at them and I'll call you at 4pm tomorrow to discuss the next part. Ok?"
"Ok!"

Repeat for the next three days, plus a small tangent where I realised just how far away Alaska is from EVERYTHING, and I now have a list of dates and flights that is fairly flexible, but won't leave me in a constant panic about what I'm supposed to be doing or where I'm supposed to be going next.  I do admire those people who can book a one way ticket to their first stop and deal with everything else on the ground, but I absolutely know I'm not one of them, so this works for me.

The loose itinerary looks like:

London > New York > Amtrak across U.S to Seattle > Vancouver > San Francisco > Melbourne > overground to Sydney > Auckland (meet my lovely boy) > Bali  > entirely unplanned S.E Asia bit > Kathmandu > Mumbai > Home

Personal challenge: To only look at the guidebook for the next part of the trip.  So I will have to content my over-planning self with going no further than America for now.  Which has almost worked, but all that listing energy has got to go somewhere and dun, dun, duhhnnnnn, I have to pack.  In the words of the lemmings, 'Oh no!'




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